Friday 28th December 2012
I have something shameful to admit. I had never watched Him & Her
before this series. I know – I’m embarrassed to even say it. I feel like
everyone must have been pointing and giving me odd looks as I missed the first
two series, like the time I walked all the way back from the library oblivious
to the fact I was having a massive nosebleed.
When I did stumble across the first episode of series three, tucked away
on BBC Three Sunday evenings in the shadow of Peep Show on the other
side, I was absolutely hooked. Him & Her is without a doubt one of
the best comedies on television right now, and I’m a little bit ashamed I
wasn’t aware of it before.
If you’re unfamiliar with the show, it generally goes like this – we
never leave the grotty flat of Becky and Steve, the couple played with complete
believability and naturalism by Sarah Solemani and Russell Tovey. As they
lounge round their flat they are interrupted each week without fail by the
supporting cast, from odd neighbour Dan (Joe Wilkinson) to Becky’s sister Laura
(Kerry Howard), probably the most brilliantly horrendous character on
television. Often crude but always somehow lovely and charming, you’d think
being stuck in the same flat with the same group each week would become
repetitive, but rather each episode forms a beautifully crafted, perfectly
observed half hour of comedy, usually with an undertone of some delicately
touching drama, and carried off by superb performances from every single cast
member.
The main plots that gently rumbled along through this series were Steve
building up to proposing to Becky (done with the help of homemade Deal or No
Deal boxes), a blossoming relationship between Dan and Shelley, and the
unhappy union of the nightmarish Laura and her possibly gay fiancé Paul. Sunday
night marked the end of the current series with a Christmas special, an
occasion which doesn’t seem the most obvious to spend with the lazy couple, and
indeed the episode opened with them in bed dipping turkey into mugs of gravy.
Soon the guests descended, including Steve’s often absent dad, leading to a
quietly heartfelt subplot playing out alongside the comedy provided by Laura
arriving with a karaoke machine and a whistle, gifting everyone with Mothercare
vouchers and reacting with barely concealed disdain when Shelley splashed out
on an antique necklace for her.
It was another warm and at times surprisingly touching episode, just
what I had come to expect - I may have only watched one series, but I already
feel at home in Steve and Becky’s flat. Not that I’d be welcome there, of
course; I’d get in the way of them watching TV.
Put simply, I can’t believe what I’ve been missing
out on. If you made the same mistake as I did, it’s not too late to redeem
yourself. Just quietly treat yourself to the DVD boxset, and we need never
speak of this oversight again.